When I was 19 years old, I was with a very abusive and psychologically unstable man. He lied to me and told me he couldn't have kids, just so that we can have unprotected sex. One month later, I ended up pregnant. This was the only time I've ever been pregnant in my life. He had the nerve to not help me and kept saying the baby wasn't his. Well that was when I knew I was making the right decision. I went to the clinic alone because he was too much of a punk to face the music. After it was all said and done he came to see me and confessed that I was the 6th woman to have an abortion by him. This let me know I made the right decision, but I later felt angry and depressed. The hormones made me sad, but I was angry with myself for wasting time and going through this because of such a loser. He didn't make things better because after the abortion he kept saying he misses his baby and that he wished I kept a sonogram. Anyway, I've made sure to keep myself safe from losers and I view this as a learning experience.